I have to admit,

There will be cuss words in this blog. I will be letting my little freak flag fly and the full force of my colorful language shall be unleashed, fuck yo’ feelings 🙂 Also I am a 90’s kid, a woman who grew up in a world where if you had a penis you were a…

Am I the Only One Who….

Can’t fucking standle how damn sensitive adults have gotten!? People say dumb shit online and when you call them on it they be all, “No need to be negative.” Uh – you said dumb shit – don’t say dumb shit and expect to be fucking not told it’s dumb. When I was growing up if…

Being a Cycle Breaker as a Life Path,

As you have seen in my profile and on FB I do not use my adoptive families name anymore. I also do not use the name of my biological mother, Hadju. I choose to use my mans last name, Firkus. His family is my family now. His parents have been loving and accepting since day…

I Cheated on My Man…

Don’t judge me too harshly, we have all done it once at least. Right? No? Okay so maybe not every lady cheats on her partner. And those who do probably don’t confess online to a public forum. I have to admit to it though or I will be a wreck mentally. It wasn’t a planned…

Can I Get Serious For a Minute Here,

I mean like, deep and heart felt for a moment, are you ready for that? All of my previous posts have been off the cuff, not edited – not even proof read a bit – light and short, sweet with a bit of sass. This one though is going to be longer and I will…

Cats are Vindictive Little Buggers,

who will tip over their littler box, eat library books, barf on carpet – even when the tile floor is literally inches from the carpet spot they are barfing on – scratch the carpet under your bedroom door at 6 a.m. because they believe you have slept in long enough.. BUGGERS. My cats, Bob and…

Books Are My Lovers!!!

The exclamation points aren’t really necessary but there they are and there they’ll stay. My point really, I am a book fiend, I read 6 novels this week alone. A trilogy by an author I had tried not to read, Nora Roberts… she is sickeningly good at her work, I suggest her if you are…

Love and Loss – Light and Dark,

The other day my sweet boy hollers to me from the potty and I enter the washroom to see him smiling, “Whats up little man?” he then points down into the bowl and says “You gotta grab a spoon mom, my Lego fell in.” and he scoots back to show me a tiny, slim red…

A Tad Bit of Romance for Your Sunday Delight,

I have been devouring a delicious novel all day and it is set in Ireland, plot filled with dorky, nerdy things like magik witches and lots of teased up romance (I am a fuckin’ loser, full on and without shame.), I can’t help it, I am a woman after all. I totally adore the idea…

So There I am Frying Up Bacon,

This morning and my man is unloading the dishwasher, he isn’t smiling, so I pull a Officer Doofy face and start lightly humping the oven while singing the Makin’ Bacon song I made up a year or so ago… and he turns to me, chuckles and says “You know babe, it isn’t that there’s no…

The Reason Behind My Blogs Name,

Is pretty darn simple. Blood and bone I am a Gypsy. Magyar Gypsy at that. Half at least, the other half of me is unknown. My birth mother is a full blooded gypsy, thick dark hair, mischievous dark eyes, a wicked smile, big proud laugh and unrelenting intelligence. My birth father may very well be…